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How to Spice up a Relationship


Relationships are easy in the very beginning when it's all intimacy and talking, everything is new and exciting, it's all rainbows and butterflies in the stomach, but this phase ends eventually. If you start question everything, you need to understand what you want. And if you care about each other and don't want to lose what you have, you need to do something about it. We hope this article helps you with that.


Give each other some space

The easiest and most popular way out is staying apart for a little while. A vacation or a weekend. It doesn't mean you have to move out, spending a few days without each other may really do the trick. You can go to your parents' house, see your friends, or go on a little trip with your siblings. You will start missing each other and be really happy to come home.

Change your routine

If you are sick and tired of your everyday routine then you obviously need new raw emotions that will help to spice up your relationship. Try changing the routine - don't spend nights in front of the TV, go to a concert or a movie, it will give you a lot to talk about, sharing your impressions can help you learn a little more about your partner even if you are together for a long time. It will make you feel like you are in the very beginning of your relationship.

Enjoy the moment

You can just hold your hands and talk about something besides your relationship, forget that you have a problem, just enjoy the moment.

Surprise your special someone

Try to make your boyfriend / girlfriend fall in love with you all over again, surprise them, show them something they don't know about you. Make them realize there is so much more to learn about each other and to look forward to.

Try new things

New lingerie to surprise your boyfriend / roses for your girlfriend and a romantic dinner can help to spice things up a little. Boredom in bed is often the reason of break ups. You can try to spice up your sex life with games / new foreplay tricks and etc. Make a list of what you like and what you don't like, and let your partner do the same. When doing that it is important to be honest with yourself and with each other. Then compare your lists, and see what it is that you both are willing to try. Just trying new positions is not enough.

Sweet little things

Try doing sweet little things - like leaving love notes in unexpected places, sweet messages every now and then. It will make you both feel needed and help to decrease the tension between you.

Get a hobby

Get a hobby. Something you can do together. It is better if it is a kind of sport, or something extreme, that can give you a plenty of vivid emotions that can bring you closer together. But you need to make sure your partner is really into it beforehand. Try to learn more about what your partner likes and what he / she really wants.

Go on a trip

Go on a trip together. This can be a great experience, especially if you've never been on a trip together.

Make gifts

Even if it's something little, it will sure make your beloved one smile.


Don't do something you don't want to do. And don't make your partner do what they don't want to do, because in that case it would be no fun. Fun is the whole point of spicing up a relationship.



Take care of your beloved ones. Be honest with yourself and your partner. If you don't love them, just let them go; remember that you are not hurting your partner - you are setting them free. But if you do love him / her, fight for your relationship and never give up.

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